A Guide To A Fashionable Recession

New Year - New Blog

2010-01-16T09:31:00.002+11:00

It seems like only yesterday I welcomed the Millennium with a slight fear the world was going to end because of the Y2K bug as an under-aged teenager roaming Las Vegas casinos with my family. 10 years later, I’m counting down in the cold at Times Square with my family and two lovely additions. I’m actually old enough to reminisce and recount things that happened “ten, fifteen years ago” which is extremely scary.

So in the last decade I left home, moved overseas, went to boarding school, went to university, met people…and more people, started dating, studied in China, worked in KL, Singapore and Brunei to realise I don’t really like the Asian working culture. Then comes 2009 and I realise I don’t like working full stop. I started a business from a hobby, travelled and wish I could travel forever and stop home to a clean and comfy bed and warm showers.

I suffered a big loss last year but healed with the help of those close to me. But then it all opened up again when I was in Shanghai and learned you cannot take people for granted because they won’t always be there. Time really is of the essence and sometimes the “I plans and I wills” just aren’t as good enough as “I did”. Time lost is not something you can buy back.

So with a new decade in full swing (though the heat and the sleepy streets of Melbourne might suggest otherwise), I thought it was a good time to start a brand new blog. I had fun writing my last one but to be honest I was way too sidetracked with everything else apart from money saving tips.

My neighbour once told my Mum “I see your daughter likes pretty things” so here I present to you “The Pretty Things Project”. I hope 2010 will be filled with inspiration for me and beautiful pieces of jewellery for you. The blog is very much in the works still but that's where I'll be posting from now on. So jump on :)

P.S.: U-Fhern.com is having a stunning special - 50% off all pieces of jewellery from now until Valentines Day! I'm still having troubles setting up the promotion on the site, so if you're interested, please e-mail me at ufc@u-fhern.com.

Happy New Year!

2010-01-03T09:38:00.009+11:00

2010 has arrived - a new year, a new decade and maybe some new year resolutions.

I spent the first day of the new year flying and I've finally touched down in London town. I've got two days to do a speed tour of the city before heading to Shanghai.

But as the new year is ushered in, thanks must be given to those who have made 2009 bearable for me :P

Thank you to my friends and family for their constant love and support - I suffered loss but learnt to stay strong. I realised some people aren't as they seem but learnt to trust myself and my instincts.

Snowman & Snowwoman @ Central Park

Thank you to the DTT grads for pulling me through a tough year of work and study. Would not have survived without you all!

Under the Brooklyn Bridge

Thank you to everyone who has supported U-Fhern.com - 2010 will be filled with new ideas and pretty things :)

And to my Beijing girls - Miss you lots! Hopefully a reunion is near :)

May 2010 be filled with joy and success. The dawn of a new decade I'm sure, will have exciting adventures in store for all.

Lots of love,

Uey

Brrr

2009-12-30T10:38:00.004+11:00

The City that never sleeps is as cold as ever (for me anyways). We can't last a few minutes outdoors and I hear someone saying that the weather is considered "tropical" for them. We've been visiting some NY sites and everything seems so large in comparison to back home.

I just have Grand Central left and a photo with my mobile Gossip Girl style :)

Will post photos up when I get back home.

Happy holidays!

Ho Ho Ho!

2009-12-25T21:55:00.002+11:00

Merry Christmas everyone! I hope Santa has dropped by with lots of lovely presents and that the day is filled with yummy food and great company.

May the year ahead bring joy, happiness and good health to all.

Lots of love,

Uey

ROFL

2009-12-22T12:42:00.003+11:00

Said to be one of the best entertainers by Simon Cowell, Terry Fator has signed a 10 year contract with The Mirage in Las Vegas. We were entertained by the funny man last night and again, it was another fantasic show to tick off.

Terry Fator and Friends (all so cute and all so funny!)

Youtube this guy and ROFL away! xo

The Blue Men

2009-12-20T21:37:00.000+11:00

We watched the Blue Man Group perform at the Venetian the other night and it was a spectacular performance - very different to those I've seen in the past. The show is well known around the world and is very smart and very funny.

The Blue Man Group

As we were being ushered to our seats, we realised we were in the rows assigned plastic ponchos - we'd quite possibly get wet but to our surprise, the only substance that came our way requiring a plastic shield was some bananna smoothie like liquid squirting from the chests of the blue men.

I won't ruin the surprise if anyone plans on seeing the show but I can say it was well worth the price :)

Dining next to the gorgeous Jake Gyllenhaal

2009-12-18T21:42:00.005+11:00

I've arrived in the US of A! The flight was delayed by over two hours and it wasn't the most comfortable journey. Although exhausted, the family decided to head straight out in an attempt to overcome the jet lag. Our first destination was Hollywood, then a drive along Sunset Boulevard and a tour of the homes of the rich and famous.

First day in LA and we managed to fit in 3 meals in within the space of 4 hours. Mid afternoon snack was at Roscoes (fried chicken and waffles) followed by an Italian dinner along Rodeo Drive.

Then after dinner, we were highly recommended the best burger EVER.

As we were escorted to a round table, we realised we were seated next to Jake Gyllenhaal!

Only a day after the apparent break up with Resse Witherspoon, Jake too was having the famous burger at Comme Ca, a French restaurant on Melrose Drive. The ladies were smitten and the men were trying to devise a plan to get a photo and an autograph.

After dessert, Big Bear turned around (that's how close we were) and asked if we could take a photo. He politely said it wasn't a good time and engaged with us in a friendly conversation for a minute or so. So gorgeous and so lovely :) *the heart flutters*

Although we were all star struck, there is no need to forget the lovely restaurant we were at. David Meyers, the owner, came around to have a chat because we had travelled from down under. Hearing of our travels, he wrote down a list of restaurants to visit. The decor is simple and chic and the burger was excellent! A great way to start our American adventure :)

Tick - Tock - Tick - Tock

2009-12-16T12:02:00.000+11:00

I am moments away from my holiday only to realise that I am already dreading my return in 2010.

I have promised to end 2009 with a bang because the year hasn't been too fascinating for me with full time work, study and loss.

Hopefully the New York skies will inspire me to make the coming year something special...

Fazzino 3-D New York City Street Scenes & Tribute to Broadway

...In New York
Concrete jungle where dreams are made of,
There's nothing you can’t do,
Now you're in New York!!!
These streets will make you feel brand new,
the lights will inspire you,
Let's hear it for New York, New York, New York

Welcome to the bright light..

Lyrics from Empire State of Mind by Jay-Z Feat. Alicia Keys

~*~

I will try post whilst away, (a Christmas message at the very least), but just in case I don't get to for whatever reason...

HAPPY HOLIDAYS! xo

The Accountant

2009-12-14T08:23:00.004+11:00

There are so many jokes about accountants - how boring we are etc etc. (then again there are jokes about most professions). But this picture shows we can be chic and cute! :)

From The Sartorialist

Not your typical Accounting dress code (even down under) but she's so gorgeous.

The Sartorialist was book signing here in Melbourne last Thursday. Unfortunately, the Accounting profession did not allow me to attend as I was locked away studying.

Mad About You

2009-12-10T13:57:00.006+11:00

I love the shape of the heart - the heart shape, not so much the anatomical heart (though it is the center of our existence). I like the fullness of it, the symmetry, the intense colour it's usually filled with. Compare this to a girlfriend of mine who hates the shape of the heart. She thinks that it gives people a false expectation of what love is all about - she says "Love isn't perfect, so neither should the heart." She prefers anything but the perfect heart shape - skewed, elongated, incomplete, you name it and she'll take it over the full bodied red heart.

Each year Georg Jensen has a new heart addition to it's line. I've slowly come to recognise them - what I love is the fact that they're not all perfect but they each tell a good story of what love embodies.

I must say to some extent I do agree with her theory behind false expectations. Having grown up watching Disney fairy tales where Prince Charming comes riding along in a white horse and sweeps you away, real life relationships are everything but that. And though I do sometimes feel disappointed at this fact, I've become accustomed to the idea that no one is perfect and if you got something great going, it's worth holding on to.

Mad About You - now showing on Foxtel :)

So now that I'm on study leave, I've had the luxury of enjoying day time television during study breaks. One of my new favourites is not the new season of Gossip girl, but rather 'Mad About You' from the 90s. The couple fight, shout and talk over one another but at the end of the day they have this great connection. Their frustrations are real - common things Big Bear and I (and many others I'm sure) fuss about which makes the show something we can all relate to. I also love that they have this adorable dog who "isn't so bright" running around trying to catch an imaginary mouse.

A Mother's Love

2009-12-07T18:38:00.005+11:00

~*~ 12 Days of Giving is still on - click here to participate ~*~

The festive season is just around the corner and though we don't get the snow white excitement, Aussies still enjoy the holiday period as we celebrate in the sun.

The last (and coming) weeks have been filled with parties and gatherings and not to forget those corporate ones that are held despite the GFC. A lot less lavish, but held nonetheless to thank everyone for their hard work through difficult times.

My company held a rather rather low key one - just drinks and finger food while Big Bear's was a buffet with a black and white theme. As a new entrant to the firm, it is tradition to act out a skit at the Christmas party...and if I get permission, I'll be sure to post it up!

What a cutie! Anne Geddes' Christmas Baby

Prior to the laughing fit the audience had, I met a new mommy at the party. She is a gorgeous woman who didn't even look like she'd just had a baby. I asked how it was with the baby she said "It's getting better because at first I had a baby who I loved of course, but I didn't know. Now I'm getting to know her and I'm really becoming a Mum". So excited she (and her partner) were that they went around asking couples when they were having babies when most of us weren't even married!

12 days of Christmas ~ 12 days of giving

2009-11-28T08:31:00.014+11:00

~ Christmas is just around the corner and I cannot wait! ~

Just to let everyone know, U-Fhern.com will be closed between 15 December 2009 and 15 January 2010. If you'd like to shop, please do so before then. To help with the shopping frenzy, I am offering free Christmas wrapping on all items.

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Growing up, one of my favourite Christmas tunes was The 12 Days of Christmas.

In the spirit of giving, I will be giving away 12 pieces of jewellery from U-Fhern.com.

To win, please e-mail your top three favourites from the site to ufc@u-fhern.com along with your name and mailing address by 10 December 2009.

12 winners will be selected randomly...please note that conditions apply.

~*~

Conditions:

1. Jewellery eligible consists only of bracelets / bangles & earrings

2. Addresses must be within Australia

3. You will not be notified if you win, rather a surprise in the mail :)

Good luck! xo

I'm In Love

2009-11-21T20:25:00.004+11:00

Melbourne quite literally saw four seasons yesterday and the weekend was welcomed with a rather gloomy looking day. I was walking through the Village, while trying to escape from people trying to make me vote for something (actually, someone).

The only thing that made me stop was a jewellery store along Toorak Road and I saw a gorgeous little ring perched on a stand...

There were other pieces with inspirational words and I'm contemplating making a purchase so that when I look down at my hands whilst typing away at audit work papers, I'll be reminded of the reason I'm doing it :P

Though I can't really justify it pre travels and all...so I'll just be flipping though the lookbook for now :))

O Battery, Where Art Thou

2009-11-16T21:38:00.007+11:00

I always feel that the battery to my gadgets die at the most inappropriate times. For example, my first time at the Great Wall, my camera decided it was time to take a break. I, on the other hand, did not think so and resorted to using my bottom to warm up the battery pack. The result was a photo of the camel that resides at the top of the Wall that apparently "keeps away the rabbits".

Another moment when my battery died was at the Beyonce concert and Katie Holmes, accompanied by the adorable Suri Cruise was only several meters away! So with the ailing Nikon, I captured this...

Where's Katie?

(White beret, striped dress, black jacket)

Don't even ask where Suri is. I was not happy my little pocket camera did not live up to it's duties.

So then came Britney and I made sure that the battery was fully charged and here is what I got...

Gone are the days when an 8 megapixel camera was "Oh so cool". Unless you have a fat fat machine hanging off your neck, it's hard to photograph anything amazing. The SLRs make the little ones look like camera phones now *sigh*.

Take me to the circus...

2009-11-10T21:54:00.004+11:00

I am expecting lip-syncing but still looking forward to a great performance :)

I was listening to songs from her first album and I had an instant flashback to my teenage years - can't deny how old I feel at the moment.

Questions, questions, questions

2009-11-07T13:58:00.006+11:00

I've been hit withe two big questions lately...

1) What have you done in 2009 that is memorable?

The last couple of years I've spent travelling quite a bit but 2009 has just been work, study and more work. Not very memorable at all.

So I've decided that while the bulk of it hasn't been all too special, I will end it with a bang even if it means freezing my bottom off in Times Square just to see the ball drop.

I'm looking forward to ice skating outdoors, walking through Central Park, visiting the Guggenheim and partaking in Boxing Day sales!

I cannot wait!

2) Are there such things as superficial friends?

Are there people who seem like good friends on the outside and even on paper but aren't truly as great at you think or have hoped?

It's rather disappointing, but maybe it's all part of growing up and it's all a learning curve to filter out the not so good and keep those who treasure the relationship with no question.

Is Heading to the U.S.A!!!

2009-11-02T22:44:00.003+11:00

It has taken me way too long to fill out my application. Had I had a Bruneian or Australian passport, the process would take 10 minutes. But no, I have stamps in my Malaysian passport that proves residency in Brunei and Australia. So with this red passport comes 20 pages of questions and plenty of paperwork.

I am asked...

Have you ever been arrested or convicted for any offense or crime, even though subject of a pardon, amnesty or other similar legal action? Have you ever unlawfully distributed or sold a controlled substance(drug), or been a prostitute or procurer for prostitutes?
Have you ever been refused admission to the U.S., or been the subject of a deportation hearing or sought to obtain or assist others to obtain a visa, entry into the U.S., or any other U.S. immigration benefit by fraud or willful misrepresentation or other unlawful means? Have you attended a U.S. public elementary school on student (F) status or a public secondary school after November 30, 1996 without reimbursing the school?
Do you seek to enter the United States to engage in export control violations, subversive or terrorist activities, or any other unlawful purpose? Are you a member or representative of a terrorist organization as currently designated by the U.S. Secretary of State? Have you ever participated in persecutions directed by the Nazi government of Germany; or have you ever participated in genocide?

All to which I have answered NO!

I am asked to provide supporting evidence of my finances, employment, and that I have intention of leaving America rather than jump ship and stay as an illegal immigrant pretty much. So the weekend was spend scrambling the documents and paying a lot of money for the application only to be asked 3 questions at my interview this morning:

- What do you do?
- How long have you been doing it for?
- Who are you traveling with?

And wait for it - without requesting any other documentation, the Americano says...

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...

...

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"Okay, visa granted!"

No complaints there because it has been my childhood dream to have a white Christmas, but the money and time spent on completing the application is just "bleh".

I love a bargain!

2009-10-30T13:05:00.004+11:00

I love the idea of getting a bargain, but I must say I don't have a track record of getting too many. I started last Sunday flipping through the Melbourne magazine and saw an advertisement for jewellery on show the a Uniting Church in Hawthorn. I didn't think I'd find much there but I just had to see what was out and about so we gave ourselves half an hour but boy were we surprised...

Except for this gorgeous bangle, everything else was priced at $2, $5 or $10! Im constantly on the search for gorgeous gold chains and it's not an easy task. Chain in the shops can cost up to $18 a meter and are nowhere as lovely as what I found.

I love the horseshoe on the bangle and it comes in a vintage cushioned box with an intricate clasp.

All proceeds from the jewellery sold went to towards the work nuns were doing to help women suffering from domestic violence. Keep a look out in the local papers for great opportunities like this!

An Education

2009-10-26T22:16:00.005+11:00

I guess I've heard it many times before - an education is something that no one can take away from you. But it was nice to be reminded to put into perspective exactly where I am...

I don't want to ruin the story but I think most girls (well me at least) will find an important answer to many big questions after watching this.

Now showing in Melbourne :)

I am a jewellery "assembler"

2009-10-22T23:46:00.000+11:00

People often ask how I come up with designs for my jewellery and quite often people are surprised to find out I actually don't drawn any of my pieces. If I think of something, I'll lay out my beads and my charms and try put something together. But I have a scrapbook of pretty things that I can draw inspiration from.

However, when I lived in China and before I found my amazing Lao Shi, I didn't make any jewellery but I'd see people wearing pretty pieces I just had to jot down so remind myself when I get back to my tools and materials. Then I travelled to Italy to do a jewellery design course for a month. My Dad had always told me to go into designing pieces with diamonds and other precious stones if I was really into it because that's where the money is (typical business man way of thought), but I know it isn't for me because I love costume jewellery - you can read about it here - and also because I love touching my stones and my beads and it's all me from start to finish...it gives me a sense of satisfaction.

So when I got to IED (Instituto Europeo di Design), the teachers who had worked for some of the top brands like Rolex and Bulgari they told me to develop a collection from a chosen theme. I was lost. I don't have "collections" per se. More like this and that. But that's because every piece is unique. So to derive an ideas from one theme was painful. And I really had only ever been inspired by jewellery itself. My classmates were inspired by Spanish balconies, architecture, fruits and plants. So I thought I'd better pick something - I chose the rainforest having grown up in Brunei. My collection ended up being something like this...

~ On another note, I wrote about The Prince's Rainforest Project recently...and it's something close to my heart given where I'm from but it doesn't seem that there has been much publicity about it (or maybe that's just me)...so if you haven't heard / read about it, check it out here and follow the link to the official website :) ~

One component of a class was to use a computer program to draw jewellery (which honestly was not for me), so I spoke to the teacher and she said, "So you're not a designer, you're an assembler". But design I did that Summer and I was delighted to see over a year later one of my ideas realised by Dior!

No, I don't think they stole my design, by the concept was the same and it makes me feel that I should have developed the idea more *oh, the potential* But that's ok, it still makes me happy. I can dream to one day be working for Christian Dior (just like how they do in the CA ads except I won't be doing the mathy stuff :))

Faces

2009-10-20T14:08:00.000+11:00

Following on from my last post of my new necklace "The Mirror Has Two Faces", I just had to post up this photo I took in Venice...

We had just gotten off the boat ride from Murano and Burano (one famous for glass blowing and the other famous for lace) and got lost trying to make our way back to the hotel. We came across a store with the hand and the face in the window. It reminds me of exactly how Big Bear holds my face when we're in the car and waiting at the lights. Funny thing is, my eyes pinch at the edges except my eyes point downwards like my Dad's :))

The Mirror Has Two Faces

2009-10-18T10:12:00.007+11:00

Firstly, I must apologise about the quality of the photos. It's as if I've never taken a photography course ever! I can't get rid of the shine / reflection of the masks but it will have to do for now.

The Mirror Has Two Faces

$60

I bought the masks as pairs of earrings from Venice. They have kiosks set up around St Marc's Square. I love Italy and Venice is definitely the city of romance. Couples travel along the water in gondolas with tourists snapping away as the go under a bridge (okay, maybe that part isn't too romantic). But music is everywhere and couples wander hand in hand exploring the water city. And St Marc's Square reminds me of one of my Disney favourites - Mary Poppins where the old lady feeds the birds :)

The necklace comprises of 3 different types of gold chain with adorned with the masks and green and pink glass beads. (Again I must apologise for the photos...the colours are a lot more vibrant in real life!)

Goldilocks

$25

Another piece I found in my box of semi-finished things. Finally got around to getting it done. It is two thin gold coloured bangles adorned with tan Swarovski crystals and golden charms of a dragonfly, a beautiful heart and a seahorse.

The Prince's Rainforest Project

2009-10-14T19:15:00.001+11:00

I love watching CNN (even though headlines are majorly repeated and titles running underneath can be rather inaccurate sometimes) because for some reason it reminds me of travel since every hotel t.v broadcasts CNN *ahhh, those carefree days*

But this came up the other day. It's the Prince's Rainforest Project - a campaign to save our rainforests...

Then this little heartthrob came on...

Too cute!

For more information about this campagin, visit Rainforest SOS

Drops of Jupiter

2009-10-11T13:33:00.004+11:00

Gold chain bracelet with pink and white faux pearls and clear Swarovski crystals...

Drops of Jupiter

Now up on www.U-Fhern.com

P.S: The photo isn't showing up on the website just yet for some reason, but I'll endeavor to fix it asap. xo

Jersey Boys

2009-10-09T22:59:00.001+11:00

You'll know the songs and you'll love this show!

(Now playing in Melbourne) xo

After Hours

2009-10-02T19:22:00.000+11:00

As much as I love Melbourne, I don't like how there isn't too much to do after hours. If you're not in the drinking scene, there is no shopping to do, spas to visit or good 24 hour restaurants to go to.

But this might tickle your fancy if you struggle to catch a shut eye...

NGV's exhibition of Dali's Liquid Desire

The NGV is open 24 hours this Saturday before it closes this weekend. Might have to jump on this rare opportunity!

A Silent Battle

2009-10-01T16:24:00.003+11:00

We were stuck in traffic crossing the bridge so I read out a bit of an article I was reading in my magazine. I asked Big Bear "Did you know...4 in 5 Australian woman feel that there is a silent battle between working mums and stay at home mums?" He said, "No I didn't know, especially when it is a silent one."

This really is Love...

2009-09-25T19:13:00.003+11:00

For the first time ever, I drove through a Mc Donanld’s Drive through to order a much needed coffee. It has been advertised almost as much as the new Angus burger (which according to Big Bear is great). However, the coffee is not. I spent over $3.00 only to leave a bad taste in my mouth. What you see here is not love…

What is love though, is the old couple you see inside Mc Donalds pretty much any time of day you go in. I don’t want to say they’re beggars because they never ask for money nor do they ask customers to buy them a meal. The old man just likes to talk to people coming in and out. I think the lady has Parkinsons or something of the sort because she shakes a lot and has little control over her hands and legs. However, her husband is extremely patient and caring towards her. He’ll pull her chair out and push it in, hold her hand, and tie her scarf over her hair and all she had to say for him to do that in a shaking voice was “scarf”.

Big Bear and I were sitting across from them one evening and I turned to Big Bear and said: “If I grow old and shaky, would you tie my scarf over my hair like he does?”

Big Bear: “I won’t know how to tie it like him, plus you’ll never wear a scarf over your hair like that.”

Me: “THAT’S NOT THE POINT!!”

For the last couple of days I have been travelling to the Caulfield Racecourse. Mind you, I was not dolled up attending the races but rather walking around in the rain trying to sight assets. Anyhow, while I drive to the racecourse, I have to pass by the Malvern McDonalds where the old couple often reside.

And this morning, it probably was confirmed in my mind that this couple aren’t beggars. I’ve seen the old man twice sitting at the bus stop across the road from Mc Donalds enjoying in a light hearted conversation with those waiting for their ride. When I see old people, I think of my grandmother but when they’re struggling on their own I wonder where their children are. It might be the way of life here because I know a lot of old people (even in my building alone) who live independently because they don’t want to burden their kids. But this is rather rare from where I come from even if the youngsters do feel a burden.

My Dad often reminds me of his greatest fear – that we leave him alone when he grows old. I always assure him that I’ll look after him but his response is “No lah, I don’t want to burden you guys. Just get me two nurses (one on the right and one on the left) to look after me and don’t send me to a nursing home”. I tell him that some people actually like nursing homes because they make new friends and there are plenty of activities to keep them occupied. In addition to that, I will have to make enough money to find him two nurses! He’s like “I’ll find the money, you just don’t send me off”. I’m surprised that’s one thing that worries my father because given all they’ve given me, looking after them is the least I could do.

On another note, there is an old British lady who lives near me who makes numerous trips to Safeway. But one guaranteed stop on the way is the tram stop outside my apartment. The first time I saw her I said “the tram is coming, do you want me to give you a hand with your things”. She said “No love, I’m just sitting here to rest my feet. I’m on the way back from Safeway”. As I got on to the tram, she gave a cute wave.

Every time I see her, she thinks I’m a random new stranger who is waiting for a tram. And she is another one of those people who live alone because she doesn’t want to burden her kids. She walks with a hunch but travels to and from Safeway so that she doesn’t carry too much weight at any one time.

So back to the man from Mc Donalds, I don’t think he wants anything except from a decent conversation and to feel a connection with the real world. His wife doesn’t speak much, so speaking with strangers might be his only way of temporarily forgetting his unfortunate situation. But the attention and patience he shows his wife, that really is love. And this...

"This is Love" from U-Fhern.com

Things you do to keep away from study...

2009-09-22T17:58:00.002+11:00

I have finally complete my first CA exam (still more to come unfortunately), but in the meantime I will enjoy a tiny dose of relaxation.

Foxtel decided to stop working and the internet went into shut down mode. I think everything was trying to tell me to hit the books instead of being distracted. So I relocated myself to my bedroom where I actually had a study space set up in preparation for the great CA adventure. But the desk only came into use two days before the exam.

Luckily (or maybe not so luckily), my desk looks out the window onto the main road. And I tell you, there are many observations you can make just so you don't have to study. I remember my Business Studies teacher telling me how when he was doing his IGCSEs, he spent an hour watching a bird on the window sill...

And I also remember reading an article about how the most surprising people (e.g.: a taxi driver) can tell you more about your relationship with your partner. So I decided to put this to the test...

I noticed a mummy driving her SVU putting on lipgloss with three boys in the back and a cute little doggy in the front seat who she then turned around to pat and kiss. How she manages a dog AND three boys at the same time, I have no idea.

I noticed a woman frantically throwing her arms around and the male driver just looking out the window unmoved - not a good sign.

Then I saw a lady trying to hold her man's hand in the car at the lights...he just pulled away and flipped through some papers - *sigh*.

There are usually more exciting incidents on my corner...In the same week I saw a man capsicum sprayed and arrested, another man walking around half naked, intoxicated and then arrested and boys running down the street pushing over all the rubbish bins only later to see them back with a policewoman and a broom to clear up the mess - at least I know the police act fast here.

Though my more recent observations may not have been quite as exciting, they were enough to drown me a few minutes of distraction :)

You Bloody Nose!

2009-09-20T11:42:00.004+11:00

WARNING: Not the most pleasant post to read if you're having Sunday brunch

Excuse the language, but I constantly have a bleeding nose and have even had to give up Bikram Yoga because the heat doesn't help my condition.

Last week it happened during lunch and thank god I was in the company of good friends, all who were willing to help and provide home remedies to make the blood go away. In the end a first-aider had to come to the rescue having seen a "damsel in distress".

However, I rocked back up to work late with a manager searching the floor for me. He found me walking in but I didn't want to explain myself or show him the bag of yuckiness. Don't think he was too impress with my apparent slack attitude.

So here I am writing as I am trying to stop a bloody nose on a sunny Sunday morning because I refuse to let this get in the way of my daily routine (and also because I am home, it doesn't matter if I look ridiculous). How you ask?

With a tampon up my nose. It brings back memories of Steve from SATC being treated after an accidental hit to the face, but it was under doctor's recommendations...and it's working...for now :)

A true n00b

2009-09-18T11:05:00.004+11:00

I didn't have an Aussie childhood so local libraries don't mean much to me. In an effort to find somewhere to study without distractions like the t.v, the couch and jewellery, a friend and I decided to make our way down to the council library.

Over excited about the prospects of being in a new place, we arrived at the library too early in the pouring rain. Seeing us in strife huddling under one umbrella and peering anxiously through the glass doors, the librarian kindly opened up and welcomed us in.

I was very nervous worried about the coffee and drinks we had brought in with us - apparently that is allowed!

Then I thought we needed evidence to prove that we were from the area to obtain a library card - apparently that is not required.

Then I thought we had to pay a fee to borrow books - that is not required either! So this is why we pay council rates! Complete n00b!

The library is nice and clean - I like! And now I am contemplating actually borrowing books and returning on my way home from work. If you're in the Stonnington area, there is a new library up and running in Prahran...

Prahran Library - might make a trip to this newly refurbished library

Maybe this n00b will find out more interesting facts about local libraries today :)

Crazy In Love...

2009-09-16T11:26:00.006+11:00

I am crazily in love with Beyonce! 24 hours earlier, she was in the U.S attending the MTV awards where Kanye stole Taylor Swift's moment claiming the award belonged to Beyonce. The rather diplomatic bombshell later returned Taylor her moment by inviting her on stage when she won an award to allow her to finish what she had started. Twitter was immediately filled with Kanye/Taylor related tweets.

24 hours later Beyonce was shaking her booty at Rod Laver. She was hot hot hot! Need I say more?

Photo from www.theage.com

Her opening acts (Jess Mabuoy and Flo-Rider) were the best opening acts I'd seen here in Australia.

Just moments before the stunner strutted out on stage, we spotted Kate and Suri Cruise entering the VIP section behind the mixing desk. Suri, as expected, was super adorable and Kate was a friendly, laid-back celebrity waving and takin

g photos with fans.

I have moments where I wonder how Beyonce does it. I know she is a celebrity with lots of money and lots of helpers but to have the natural talent she does and run around on stage with high high heels then jet of to another city for the next show amazes me. I get tired sitting in the office for a day.

Photo from www.theage.com

I blogged about a dance competition Beyonce held for her hit single "Single Ladies" and last night prior to doing the crazy dance routine, she featured some of the entrants to this competition and they included clips from Justin Timberlake and even Obama.

She closed with an emotional tribute to Michael Jackson with "Halo" and fans were screaming and applauding. She showed a home video of when she was a little girl saying she wanted to grow up to be like Michael Jackson. Beyonce embodies "the perfect woman" according to Big Bear and I am sure many young girls are wanting to grow up to be like her.

As promised...

2009-09-14T17:20:00.004+11:00

Sorry, the photos are in the wrong order but there is still a whole lot of yumminess contained in this post...

Let us rock the pool

2009-09-12T12:00:00.003+11:00

My after work hours has been filled with food food and more food since the arrival of my Daddy...and boy does my belly have to show for it!

Tonight, it was an early dinner at Rockpool. As most of you would know, this restaurant originated from Sydney and is owned by Aussie chef Neil Perry. On this note, I'll take the time to share with you a work event involving a Neil Perry. I'm part of the committee which has been trying to raise funds to take a class of 25 kids to attend a show at the Melbourne Theatre Company. As a group, one of the ways we came up with was to conduct an auction at a work event of items donated by the committee and/or Partners of our firm. A few pieces of jewellery from U-Fhern.com were sold but a last minute entrant was a Neil Perry inspired Asian meal for five couples, cooked by one of the Partners himself.

This item drew a great deal of attention with a group of grads battling against the PAs for the highest bid to enjoy a night with one known to a few as the BFG (a big guy with a great heart). As the bidding drew to a close, the bidding sheet was surrounded by a dozen people. The exclusive night out went for over $500.

After tonight's meal at Rockpool, it was no wonder the dinner attracted bids from across the firm.

Firstly, the waitress was absolutely wonderful. She looked rather spunky with short hair and a mega long fringe like in Japanese Anime but she knew her stuff. She described the different types of beef with the emotion and detail as if you were to describe your idol. She pulled out napkins depending on the colour of your outfit. She said "This black napkin is for you since you're wearing black". I thought it was just a joke and another thought that the pattern of black and white napkins was to represent the spots on a cow - if you haven't been in, the place and the menus are decorated with cows, so it was a possible explanation. But then I overheard the waitress explaining the reason for the black and white napkins and it was to ensure that if you were wearing black, you wouldn't have white lint after your meal, and vice versa. So on that note - terrific service!

Secondly, the food was amazing! Everyone was happy :) everything from starters to desert was lovely...the menu tonight seemed to have expanded and the decision was so hard to make. A few outstanding dishes:

~ Oysters (can't vouch this myself as I'm allergic, but Big Bear and two other friend spent $800 on them + drinks, so they must be pretty damn good!)

~ Meat platter (you get to taste a variety and I can't remember which one, but because there was one where the animal was fed acorns and the sweetness penetrated through to the meat)

~ All the different types of beef (depends what type of taste/texture you're looking for - ask the waitress for a low down, but all were well received)

~ Desserts were yummy yum yum - we restrained ourselves to share a few amongst us, and the list was again, extensive (personal favourite was the strawberry macaroon)

Now with a big and content belly...I'm off to slumber :)

Yummy photos will follow shortly! xo

09.09.09

2009-09-09T14:34:00.001+11:00

It's been a month and a day since you left us.

You are no less distant in our memories or in our hearts.

Happy Papa's Day!

2009-09-07T23:18:00.003+11:00

One of the greatest men in my life who has taught me so much.

And in typical MC style, is always busy on the phone.

Teeney weeney cupcakes

2009-09-06T09:47:00.000+11:00

I had pretty pretty cupcakes to celebrate my twenty first. They were very in at the time after Carrie Bradshaw's book launch party. But on a more practical level, I thought you couldn't really go wrong with one cupcake each because you won't have guests saying, "I'll just have half that slice" which just results in messy leftovers.

These cupcake were ordered from a stall at Prahran Market. They were packed extremely well to reach their destination and the colours were perfect for my party.

But as with most other things, bigger better developments happen (well in this case, smaller)...

Little Cupcakes - Too cute to resist.

Little Cupcakes have now opened near my work. I must say they're not a cheap treat but I see many colleagues making a trip downstairs to satisfy a sweet craving (or two...maybe even three). Late Friday night, I returned to work (sad I know) to pick up a few things and I noticed the lights on and chef hats bopping around by the window. I walked down the alley a little and noticed two Chinese youngsters working the Kitchen Aid and piping the icing to freshly baked cupcakes. It felt like being a child discovering the elves who worked for Santa. Though this kitchen of two would have been on a much much smaller scale.

Check Little Cupcakes out...now also at Goldsbrough Lane (Its the building on the corner of Bourke and Williams Streets - where Nine West is). And you can also pay me a visit at work too :) Enjoy! xo

Big really is better!

2009-09-05T00:31:00.005+11:00

On Wednesday I wrote about Costco's entrance to the Melbourne market and how big is good. Next thing I see are articles about full figured ladies gracing magazine covers. This has been extremely well accepted with readers applauding the long awaited move to feature healthy girls...Check out this article from The Age.

Finally...a refreshing shot of reality!

Next thing I heard was Myer featuring plus size models on their runways. And the great thing is that they haven't been casted separately. They are part of the main show as fashion labels are catering for and embracing the average woman.

I know girls who can eat eat and eat and still be stick thin (yes JT, I know you're reading and you know we're all so jealous). Then there are those who eat and abuse themselves to be thin when they're already thin! (not that you ever need to abuse yourself).

At the end of the day, it's your health that counts, not what the fashion industry typically sells. A roll here and a roll there will only make you more cuddly :)

The bigger the better!!!

2009-09-02T13:17:00.006+11:00

I'm surprised at the fact that there are some people who have not heard of Costco arriving in Melbourne. Where have you been?!

The large American store has taken Melbourne by storm with masses of people spending their weekend inside and others lingering outside suffering from the resulting traffic jams.

I visited the warehouse club (which you have to join as a member to enter just in case you were thinking of waltzing in for a browse) with Mum - she just wanted to see what it was like but we ended up with a lot of stuff! You'll be surprise what you can find in there...

Pre made pizzas too large to fit your fridge, bottles of Nandos sauces, Guitar Heroes, the biggest tubs of shampoo / detergent / body wash - the biggest of everything really.

We bought 40 rolls of toilet paper and 10 boxes of tissues. 60 dinner rolls and tubs of strawberries. Of course much of this had to be shared amongst friends and family. It's quite a good idea to buy in bulk and share. Prices are definitely more competitive than at the supermarkets and just the idea of going in to see all things big and in bulk, is quite exciting.

Costco ...where big is good :)

I've decided it is economically wise to join as a member, shop in bulk and share the cost with your friends and family - especially for items you can't get at markets. This giant is definitely adding a whole lot of competition to Safeway and Coles...About time!

I hate goodbyes

2009-08-31T22:30:00.002+11:00

First we lost the trophy then we lost you...my heart broke when you called, to hear your teary voice. But think of all the sun and the love you will get back home.

I will miss our gossip and eating sessions. Come back soon! xo

Melbourne Op-Shop Tours

2009-08-29T14:46:00.004+11:00

A friend introduced this site to me...and its perfect ladies who want to stay chic and within their budget!

Too good to be true? Check out Melbourne Op Shop Tours.

Most definitely cheap and chic :) I like!

Please share the word xo

Mama's Presence

2009-08-27T21:54:00.003+11:00

Mum is visiting and boy does it make a difference to the home - laundry has been done, floors mopped, sheets changed and dinner is ready when I walk in the door. She has flown miles and miles and all I do is work or study...she just stays home with no complaints.

A mother's love is a mother's love - there is no other way to describe it.

Me, Wo and Moi

2009-08-25T15:19:00.001+11:00

I think most kids of this generation have had it pretty good - or maybe it's just the people I know. We all come from good families who support, emotionally and financially, all the decisions we make. A friend recently wrote about people who disapproved of her year of travel claiming it was time and money wasting. I must say I love to travel and I feel that travel opens your eyes to different cultures and different people - it is an invaluable experience. But when is it enough?

I caught up with an old friend recently and I asked him what he did during his 6 months off. He said not much, and quite frankly it got him lazy. He asked why I didn't take some time off after finishing uni since I was still quite young. I said I suppose I wanted to stay ahead while I had the advantage and I had already gone on exchange as part of my degree and done quite a substantial amount of travelling. But we both agreed we decided to start in the corporate world because it was time to give back to our parents - become somewhat financially independent. I know the "allowance" I give my parents from my pay packet isn't very much to them, but in some families when your pay might mean getting your younger sister through school, no amount is too little.

My friend noted that kids nowadays are getting too selfish. All they think about it themselves and what they want to do - and it's true. I come home after a week of work and complain about how tired I am and how I deserve a holiday while my Dad started working (and I mean hard physical labour) at the age of 16 and not once has he complained or demanded a holiday. And he had a lot more on his plate.

So I often think what is it that drives him. What makes him get up early every morning, do everything he does and still enjoy it because I definitely want a piece of that. My Dad has an interest in all things. And what drives him is anything that makes money. While my interests are limited he doesn't believe that passion alone is enough to make you successful. The Chinese are practical people and my Dad is one Chinese businessman. As much as I love making jewellery, my Dad was often stop and say "Fhen, it's just a hobby. Passion won't put rice in your bowl". And he's supported this comment with practical examples of friends and family.

Most people I know however, seem to lack the ambition and drive of the older generation. I look at my parent's group of friends and all have come from humble beginnings and have made their living with little or no education and a whole heap of dedication. Quite frankly, we have the resources to exceed what they've achieved. We've all been well educated and been well developed in aspects beyond the books. I don't see much of this happening which is very disappointing. Maybe it's because we're all still young or maybe we've been brought up to be consumed with only ourselves. Ever since I was young, my parents would tell me "You don't have to be the brightest to succeed as long as you work hard, but you will definitely fail if you're lazy, even if you're smart" and it's something I've always taken to heart.

I came across this article and it very accurately describes to modern generation today - Tribal Workers - definitely worth your time.

Weekends are always too short

2009-08-24T14:05:00.002+11:00

My weekend was quite lovely.

Dinner, movies, catchups, Footy, Soccer, scoring a goal and entering into the Finals.

Life is good...if only I didn't have to work and study.

P.S: Summer Beckons is now up on U-Fhern.com xo

Summer Beckons

2009-08-23T11:28:00.001+11:00

I've noticed a high following for a pair of earrings called Sutra despite being sold quite some time ago. I found a hoop dangled with similar charms at the bottom of my work in progress box and put this together...

Summer Beckons $40...Coming soon

For those who missed out on the earrings, maybe this might tickle your fancy?

P.S: I'm having troubles uploading the piece onto the website but will keep you all posted once I have :)

Melbourne Calling

2009-08-22T13:30:00.000+11:00

It has been an extremely windy leadup to the weekend with warnings to stay indoors and pictures flooding news websites of havoc on the streets. My team and I set off to grab lunch and this truly embodies how we were feeling...

UP - Expression is much like that of the old man less the balloons.

On the topic of Melbourne, Big Bear and I were walking around the city after work. I hadn't done that in quite a while for various reasons but I felt like a kampung girl coming out into the city for the first time. I was overwhelmed by the number of people on the streets! No wonder they need more police patrol out at night. It felt like every corner in the city was Chinatown. We even went to watch a HK movie at Hoyts in Melbourne Central and the Cinema was packed! Being somewhat an International student myself, I can't really complain but it really feels as though Australia has let too many in too quickly. You can hardly see an Aussie face as you walk down Swanston and over the Summer, when most students return home, the city is relatively quiet. Are we relying too much on the International students to eat out, shop and spend?

Having said that, Australia has been criticized of late, for mistreating foreign students. Indian kids have been bashed and robbed, others living in poor conditions. It has been reported that there will be much more stringent rules in relation to student visas. About time!

A "silly" kind of luck

2009-08-21T12:50:00.000+11:00

I was running errands with Mum before leaving KL and she asked me to stop by at the post office to pay a telephone bill. Mum said, just go in, get a ticket and pay. I'll be waiting for you outside.

I got there, saw the machine that was supposed to be spitting out the tickets - but I couldn't find the button. I pushed this and that but no ticket came. I even moved the machine with my push and an elderly man came around and said, "I'll give this number to you". I was twenty numbers ahead and it saved me lots of time. He must have seen my not so smart attempt at trying to get a ticket that he offered to help.

This is what the Chinese call "sha ren you sha fu" (well I know it is in Cantonese anyways), literally translated to mean "silly people have a silly kind of luck". It was one time I didn't mind looking silly in front of a whole load of strangers :)

This is Love

2009-08-19T22:14:00.006+11:00

This is Love

This piece is made up of sweet colours and special bits. The baby pink globe is from an old necklace and the chunky gold centerpiece holding the necklace together is from one of Mum's old costume jewellery pieces. Chains stemming from the center hold on to tan tubes, green beads, pearls, Swarovski findings and deep red teardrops.

AUD $105

Coming soon to U-Fhern.com

Funny Sightings

2009-08-18T17:08:00.005+11:00

Ever since my family has been involved with the digital SLRs, my little camera has been rather neglected. But on my last trip back to KL, I thought I'd just put it in my bag for "just in case" moments.

And here are two of those...

Lost in Translation

I find that signs are often directly translated from Malay / Chinese into English and the result is usually quite funny. I do the same because that's how my parents talk but I'm so accustomed to it that I don't even realise what I'm saying is wrong.

A few typical ones (try translating these to Chinese and you'll notice it makes perfect sense but not quite in English):

> Why you like that wan?

> Very funny is it?

> Correct or not?

> Yes or not?

> Only now you know.

Snoopy on the run

This was an extremely amusing sight during peak hour traffic - and trust me KL traffic is ugly. I don't particularly like stuffed toys in the car. I think its distracting and potentially dangerous. But this offered Mum and I a good chuckle.

Ditch your debts

2009-08-16T19:32:00.003+11:00

A few tips to keep your bank account nice and full...

1. Pay yourself first

We work hard at our jobs but for the most of us, as soon as we get paid, we use the money to pay off bills and the like. Instead, set aside a certain amount of your monthly salary and transfer it into a savings account (preferably one where you can earn higher interest and fees are involved if you withdraw). This will ensure that you have enough money saved in case of emergencies.

2. Work out a positive cashflow

Draw up a spreadsheet to show your income and outgoings. This will help you detect where you are spending unnecessarily. Cutting back will give you a greater positive cashflow.

3. Delay gratification

Postpone purchases - this will give you time to evaluate whether purchases are a need or a want. Unless it is a need, there is no real justification for it and this will prevent impulse buys.

Bear me some fruit or else...

2009-08-15T19:23:00.000+11:00

Mum said something to me quite funny today. She showed me 2 huge mangoes from our garden. I was quite surprised because about ten years ago, the trees went crazy dropping mangoes like nobody’s business. We had one at a record weight of almost 3kgs. But after the rather fertile streak, the trees just stopped producing.

We tried all sorts of methods – fertilizers, cutting branches to give the tree more sunlight and we even tried smoking it, but to no avail. So the tree was just a tree in the garden with no sweet treats for almost a decade.

My family had always been hopeful until one day they told the gardener to go threaten the tree. So there he was standing in front of the tree saying “Bear us mangoes or I’ll chop you down”. My grandaunt came out, touched the tree and said a prayer. Next thing you know, we get big fat juicy mangoes :)

Excuse my poor drawing skills. I should just stick to jewellery, but this was the first thing that came to mind.

A Letter To My Grandmother

2009-08-12T15:16:00.005+11:00

~*~

To the Queen of my heart,

I know you are in a better place but there are so many more stories to tell, riddles to learn, photos to share and memories to be made.

Thank you for raising me in my toddler years...my fondest memories are those playing by the well, watching the chickens in your backyard, riding with you on your bike.

Kampung life is so far from where we are now, but I still loved it. Walking around barefoot, watching cows make their way across the basketball court, walking out to the street to buy breakfast. I will miss all of that.

Thank you for teaching me all the little things - the Chinese rhymes and how to play "Fishing" - no one else could have done it.

I will miss your good cooking.

I will miss how you soak your feet in hot water every morning.

I will miss sitting with you watching t.v - you loved to watch the TVB dramas, but at 3pm you'd watch Indian movies and every time you'd tell me how they like to sing, cry and dance around trees.

I will miss you making me drink hot tea with bees to cure a cough, even though I silently threw it down the sink.

I miss you.

You were there when I thought no one cared, and you were there to catch me when I fell. You will always be in my thoughts, in my payers and for always, you will have a special place in my heart.

~*~

Meeting someone new

2009-08-08T11:19:00.002+11:00

I've had to rush home for an emergency but I met someone on the way that made the journey bearable and he got my mind off things...

We met on the plane. He was a handsome forty something and rather intelligent. He told me he had 5 degrees as he waived his hand, but somehow he didn't come across as arrogant. He had a psychology background (amongst others) and he read me like a book.

I said I was going home to see my grandmother, and he said "Mum's mum?...Girl's are always closer to their Mums and in turn, to your Mum's mum".

Now he had some interesting observations (refer to previous post), compared to my rather face value ones...short man - tall man, curly hair - no hair.

This man had a rather interesting job and despite being extremely tired, he apologized for closing his eyes but continued to converse with eyes shut.

Green Lightning

2009-08-06T22:07:00.005+11:00

I've been told that I make interesting observations...but this one was particularly interesting for me.

I was on a packed tram during morning traffic and I saw this little man (quite stylish) wearing a lime green scarf, big ghetto-style headphones and he had the curliest cuuuurliest hair. He started bopping to the beat, much to the annoyance to the man next to him. The other man turned around and both exchanged a stare. The other man (not so stlyish) had skinny i-pod like earphones the same lime green as the little man's scarf, he was tall and bald. He looked to the little man as if to say "Why you think you so cool?"...The two men could not have been further apart in terms of looks (and quite possibly taste in music too though I couldn't quite hear) but the little man turned to look out the window and continued to bop to the beat...that's what we all need to do when something sour comes our way...

Big Bear left to the Gold Coast this morning, and though I thought this would be a great time to catch up on my own things, I already miss him dearly. I've spent almost half our relationship overseas and now he's only gone for an hour, I can bearly handle it. He said, "I'll be back soon". I said "But I'll have no one to e-mail at work" and he said, "But sometimes all you write is "Harlow?""

So thought I'd get in to work early. Stopped by at this cafe which I loooooove. Will have to write about it. It's called "Not All There" and they have the best food and coffee...I ordered a large coffee, and the guy said as he was serving it up "Here you go, this will make your Friday allll better". Sometimes it takes a stranger to know you better!

Stepping Stones...

2009-08-04T13:47:00.002+11:00

It’s been a tough couple of weeks with busy season at work coupled with study after hours. I see my study group more than I see Big Bear and I probably see Big Bear more than I see my brother even though we’re living under the same roof.

So where does that leave friends? Hardly anywhere. I’ve missed social gatherings, dancing classes, pot lucks all in the name of…work. But no longer being little girls where friendships can “end” overnight because she broke my Barbie’s head or I broke her tea set, you’d think friendships at this age are much stronger and more mature, really.

If work has taught me nothing about auditing, it has definitely taught me about people and a whole lot about myself too. You hear people talk about those who would do anything to get somewhere, but you hardly think it’ll be someone close to you. But we’re in a grown up world now, in the real world where girls are mean, and it’s not just in the movies.

I was surprised when someone wanted help and my response was delayed not because I didn’t want to but rather because I was caught up with a million and one things. I was reminded numerous times and eventually got to it (not that it was an emergency or anything). I helped how I could but now I almost feel as if I was a stepping stone for them to get somewhere. It’s probably a very small issue, and I could be over thinking it…but not matter how small, it can make your heart shift.

But then I remember what someone once said to me… “You don’t have to be perfectly good friends with everyone you meet. As you grow up, you filter the good and the bad so in the end you get little, but of the great stuff”.

Unchained Melody

2009-08-01T23:37:00.003+11:00

Finally some contact with my camera and a model willing to pose with this piece. I made it almost a year ago when I was in Beijing but only just found it recently. The chain in made up of black facetted beads and smoking crystals with gold chain and charms. The gold chain can me removed and be worn as a charm bracelet.

Unchained Melody ... coming soon to U-Fhern.com

I see love blossoming

2009-07-30T20:37:00.002+11:00

Having been in a relationship for quite a few years, and with most of my friends in the same boat, I must say it's rare to see the excitement of a new crush or a new boyfriend/girlfriend. I was driving to work and saw a boy and a girl, both in school uniforms trying to run the light to catch the tram that was just about to depart.

They were eagerly waiting for the green man to appear...and it started to rain...and the tram started to pull away. But it appeared both were quite happy to be stuck there in the rain and without a tram. The boy turned and smiled as if to say "it's okay, I'm here". This was a lovely observation as I was making my way through peak hour traffic and it made the journey a tiny bit more pleasant to know that just because you have that one person there, it makes what would normally be a very frustrating occurrence all the more pleasant :)

A flat start to the week...

2009-07-27T20:22:00.003+11:00

As if waking up on a Monday morning for work isn't hard enough, I was welcomed to the start of the working week with a flat tyre.

At the traffic lights I was stopped by a lady telling me my back tyre was "pancak-ing" then another Asian man started frantically waving at me telling me to wind down my windows and said "Just to let you know...your back tyre is FLAT!"

I dashed to the nearest workshop and was served by some lovely people. I couldn't find the key to unlock the spare tyre so they offered to fix the problem. All was fine and dandy until I was waiting at the lights and the Indian man serving me started waving telling me to reverse back. He said "Ma'am, your other tyre looks flat, I think we should pump it since you're here"....5 minutes later, "Ma'am I think you got another nail in your tyre...see the bubbles near the nail?"

Not impressed. But I am thankful to the nice people who stopped me on the road and the lovely workmen at the workshop....but not thankful to whoever put nails near my tyre. My only reaction is that like Charlotte to Big - "I curse the day you were born!"

Evian's Live Young T.V Commercial

2009-07-26T11:33:00.003+11:00

This is such a cute television ad for Evian

Check it out!

The commercial is reported to have been directed by to Australians and features adooooorable babies skating roller-blading in our very own Botanical Gardens.

The Recessionista's Guide to Staying Fit

2009-07-24T20:00:00.004+11:00

Winter is in full force and waking up to exercise in the mornings can be painful...but it's got to be done. Here are some budget friendly tips to staying fit:

1. Ditch the gym membership and hit the Tan

During decent hours, the track is filled with runners to keep you motivated. The air is fresh and and you don't have to pay to use it.

2. Join your university's sport centre

The fees at you university club will be much cheaper than those outside. Plus it's convenient and easy to co-ordinate before, between or after classes since it's not too far away.

3. Play team sports

If your weekly schedule is lacking physical activity, time with friends, or both...set up a team with your friends so that you catch up regularly over some healthy competition. Futsal, netball and beach volleyball are popular choices.

4. Practice yoga at home

All you need is a mat and off you go! Once you've got yoga moves under your belt, you can practice anywhere and anytime.

Got Milk?

2009-07-23T17:04:00.006+11:00

When I was young, I used to love the American Got Milk ads...

Mario growing up with milk

Australia will soon be launching a big campaign to encourage youngsters to drink since studies have shown that Aussie teens are not drinking as much milk as they should. This is especially the case for girls between 13 and 16 "becuase they feel that only little kids should be drinking it". So there I was (a twenty-something year), listening to this on the radio driving to work sipping out of a carton of milk.

Even heroes need it...

Malaysian Poh-Wer

2009-07-21T09:53:00.004+11:00

After scoring my first goal for the season (thanks to a wonderful pass from Koops), the rest of Sunday evening was spent glued to the t.v watching the Masterchef Final. Though many felt the need to boycott the finale after Chris was kicked out, the show scored outstanding ratings...apparently the highest for a non-sporting event.

Poh

Would have loved Poh to win - she created some very exciting dishes throughout the show but it was quite disappointing to see that the last dish was Hainanese Chicken Rice. I'm sure it tasted great, but Poh is loved for her intriguing and sometimes "disgusting" looking compositions. Having said that, I'm not overly shocked Julie took the crown of Australia's first Masterchef given whenever she had the opportunity to speak, she'd pull at the heartstrings of the judges and the viewers.

A Bucket Full of Happiness

2009-07-17T14:46:00.007+11:00

I've been feeling rather ill this week and last night was the first night I got to spend with Big Bear with no studying to do (well there was plenty to do, just that I didn't do any). It was pay day yesterday so I thought we should go out somewhere nice...but all he had in mind was some KFC and some t.v.
So off to Chapel Street we went, found what seemed like the perfect spot until I noticed the road signs (luckily because 10 minutes later, there were inspectors marking the unlucky ones). We ordered a meal for two and then changed our minds of eating in in light of the horrendous attacks recently - it's all making Melbourne quite a scary place sometimes.

Dinner was spent around the coffee table with greasy food and watching Masterchef :) Rather enjoyable I must say becuause it didn't matter that you were eating with your hands and double dipping into your sauces. Not such a good idea for my illness, but it felt great at the time!

For those who didn't tune in to MC last night, it was a shock elimination given Julie's plates weren't exactly worthy for the camera for a cookbook...but unfortunately the poor "execution" of Chris' dishes sent him home. The final will be on this Sunday and I'm a bit sad I didn't follow this show earlier because it has proven to be quite good and it is actually not a 2nd grade version to an American show.

Coco

2009-07-15T17:06:00.007+11:00

After a rather inefficient yet tiring day at work (inefficient, not on my part might I add), I returned home to catch a 5 minute cat-nap then had dinner at a rather yummy Japanese restaurant along Toorak Road with a rather lovely family :)

I always drive past Yoshi, and I dine at Nandos as well as Red Wok (both next door) but have never really tried this cute little restaurant. The menu was extensive and everything they brought out looked excellent - almost as excellent as the Malaysian food contestants of Masterchef were exhibiting last night. The plasma along the wall was a distraction to dinner time conversation but we were all so consumed with what was being dished up that it didn't matter Poh served a dish which incorporated Petai! (for those who don't know, its a super smelly bean I steer clear of...so I was very impressed the judges had a good taste and enjoyed it!)

Two ladies then set off to Como for Coco. And Hot Cocoa we got to satisfy our sweet cravings and cold bodies. The cinema was packed with ladies and the occassional man who was dragged along.

I enjoyed the movie...it was interesting to learn about the life of Gabrielle Chanel before the tweed jackets and pearl necklaces were associated to her name. Coco was in fact the name of the dog she sang about as she was trying hard to make a living to move to Paris. I'll say no more, but it was a nice movie to see, especially for those who love her work. And as expected, Audrey Tatou played Coco Chanel fashionably well. Coco Chanel was way ahead of her time but for those who are interested in just seeing the fashion, you'll be greatly disappointed as the story is predominantly about her life before the fashion house, her private life.

Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious!

2009-07-13T19:37:00.005+11:00

Mary Poppins is coming to town! I was denied the opportunity to watch the Broadway hit the last time I was in London because no one else in my family were fans. It was definitely a show that was on constant replay when I was young and makes an occasional spin in the DVD player even now.
I won't miss it this time around even if it means I'll be visiting the theatre by myself! Melbourne might just be the artistic capital of Australia :)

On another cinematic note...I am tres excited about watching the Coco Chanel biopic tomorrow night. I'm quite sure it won't disappoint me like Bruno did.

Defying the odds

2009-07-12T12:09:00.000+11:00

The injured hand has stayed for way too long and I missed the beads and crystals...so Saturday morning was spent making a new pieces...I am having trouble uploading the photos on to U-Fhern.com but hopefully they'll be up soon :)

Bluestone
Big stone with a blue teardrop and multiple layers of gold chain

Summer Studded
Studded earrings with clay flowers, pearls and crystals

Drainer

2009-07-11T19:14:00.003+11:00

Full time work, study and business altogether is exhausting. Although I feel somewhat productive trying to balance everything, it can get tiring. And with all that taking so much of your time and energy, one has to wonder when we fit in the important things in life. Sometimes I wish that all the important things could be encapsulated like how a daily serve of veggies can come in a tablet, or the important vitamins and minerals can be bought off the shelf as vitamins and taken with meals.

One for laughter, family, friends, exercise and a social life please!

You've got mail

2009-07-09T15:09:00.009+11:00

I received something very lovely in the mail this morning. I opened the door to head off to work and was excited to see a little yellow package at my feet. I posted a while ago about my search for red lipstick and was surprised to hear from Poppy King herself!

Your wish is my command! I found this blog about red (and me) and would love to give you some advice and send you some product for writing such a nice blog.

xPoppy King

I replied thanking her for posting a comment and Poppy offered some advice about wearing red lipstick...

My pleasure U-Fhern!!!I am so glad you like my products and my book....that means a lot to me! It isn’t easy following your dreams but it is worth it. I want to send you two reds that are great place to start...The key aspect to wearing red is to minimize the rest of your make up and jewelery :) when you wear it so that the red lips are the feature and it doesn’t look all “too much”.Know what I mean??Please email you address.

Love,

Poppyx

So here is what i received in the mail...that made me a very happy girl :)

I love it when products come with a little blurb. As a designer, its always nice to share with others the inspiration behind a certain piece. Like Poppy, I give each of my pieces their very own name and I particularly love the one she gave to the black pencil like gloss - "Chinatown Thriller" and FYI, the Chinese characters translate to "Lipstick Queen".

A strong lipstick, a gloss pencil sharpener followed by a pretty red glossy stick.

I need some time to play with these reds ~ will report back soon! xo

Public Transport Peace

2009-07-07T22:30:00.000+11:00

I met up with a friend from Brunei for coffee during the week. One of my colleagues who came along asked how long we'd known each other for. I stopped to think and it was since year 2! I am Facebook friends with quite a few of the kids I went to kinder and primary school with but the number of those I actually keep in touch with and see, I can count with one hand...Anyway my friend is from Brisbane and she commented on how great Melbourne's transport is. My colleague and I were like no way! Melbourne trains are more often than not, either;
(a) Late
(b) Crowded
(c) Smelly
(d) All of the above

Uey says no to overcrowded trains and annoying kids

However, now that kids are on holidays...it is quite a pleasant ride into work. I'm not running down the platform trying to dodge kids with massive school bags and waiting for streams of them to exit the train. Also, you won't have kids trying to ruin the ending to new movies that you are waiting to see (as experienced by a good friend)...*sigh* - The frustration one must endure because there is nowhere for you to escape to in a crowded moving train. Oh well, let's enjoy it while it lasts.

Wishing and Hoping

2009-07-05T16:59:00.006+11:00

My last week has been occupied with an injured hand, a lot of work, a lot of study and a full day of soccer. There is no better time for a little bit of pampering ~ unfortunately my schedule does not accommodate for it. But there is definitely no harm wishing and hoping for an opportunity like that I had a while back...

Big Bear took me to Rye for a weekend to relax before I started work (didn't need it as much as I do now). Anyways, the day started off with a big breakfast at Blaigowrie Cafe and when I say big, I do mean big. The meal was followed by a stroll along the beach and then a drive to look at all the nice houses out there. Then Big Bear had a facial and massage booked at a day spa followed by a visit to the hot springs at The Peninsula.

Bliss

All the pampering took an entire afternoon and before we knew it...it was dinner time! Big Bear was craving something Asian while I had doubts over how good Asian cuisine could be in a holiday town. Someone had recommended the Lighthouse Cafe (Thai food) and I read somewhere they offer take-away so I imagined a dingy place in the middle of the commercial strip. To my surprise, it was a cute little restaurant and as we walked in to get a table, the food smelt amazing! But we were shattered to hear that they were fully booked. I wanted Thai then and there and was willing to sit outdoors with the rain spitting in. The waitress tried to fix something up and came back to us with an offer - if you can finish in half an hour, you can have that table. Big Bear's response to that was.."If you can get the food to us in fifteen, we can finish it it half". And boy did we do that. No romantic chat...just gulp gulp and gulp. We ordered our food when the old couple next to us ordered dessert and we were out of there before they had even asked for the bill.

Feeling rather full from dinner in a quiet town, we decided to watch a Drive in movie. You're in the comfort of your car and you don't have to deal with rude people talking but you are free to engage in a chat yourself. Lots of fun!

I cannot wait for another weekend getaway like that ~ oh well...I shall be wishing and hoping for that weekend to come along.

Australia's poor health system

2009-07-04T01:04:00.004+11:00

I have been operating for the last week with one hand and it is really quite frustrating. I can't open a bottle of water or even start my car properly! I went to the hospital on Wednesday night because everyone thought I should get it checked out to at least rule out a break or fracture. Warned of long waiting lines at the hospital, Big Bear got me a stack of magazines and we headed to St. Vincent's Hospital. Waiting room was relatively quiet and I was told I was forth in line. I believe hospitals should treat everyone (rich, poor, young old), so I didn't complain when a homeless person was sleeping in the waiting area or when an old man walked out for a smoke baring his bottom.

Unfortunately, most of the people in the waiting room seemed to have Swine flu symptoms so Big Bear and I decided to wait out in the cold instead of catching something serious. An hour later, we asked how far we had progressed in the line - still number four. And the nurses' excuse was becuase there were lots of ambulances coming in. We had been waiting by the ambulance bay and not once did an ambulance come in. Rather disappointed, we left and I went to a Private clinic the next day. Paid a lot more, but at least it was good service and I didn't risk catching Swine Flu. I hear people complain about the system all the time, but you don't understand until you experience it first hand.

Anyhow, I managed to see a lovely doctor near work - an old Jewish man and he was adorable! He asked me a dozen questions before asking what was wrong with me...he believes that accountants and lawyers are the two worst professions left in the city. He said that he's dealt with patients who have worked with asbestos and heavy physical labour...and even they are treated in the workplace better than us. With trade unions, they get regular breaks and decent working hours unlike us professionals. I thought that was very true - no one really seemed to take notice of my bandaged hand and a workmate said "Uey, they'll probably make you work unless you were lying in hospital dying". So there I was trying to plough thorugh work with an injured hand and with all the typing we do, it should be categorised as an occupational health hazard! I am using an ointment called Lasolin to help with my burst blood vessels and try ease the bump causing the pain which the doctor call a "coagulation of blood"..all very glamorous stuff.

Appreciation

2009-06-30T14:50:00.005+11:00

You never fully appreciate something until you've lost it. I must say I take for granted what my limbs can do. On Sunday night when I was trying to avoid having to get cosmetic surgery for the face, I tried to shield myself from the ball which hit my hand really awkwardly. Swelling occurred and my friend described it as looking like a fat pork chop. Even the simplest of movements seem so painful but I had to curl my messy morning hair so I attempted to using my left hand with my injured one lifting sections of hair ready for the hot iron. It actually looked better than when I use my right hand! (I think so anyway) - trick was to start halfway and not grip too tightly. Unfortunately, as I type prodding along the keyboard, I have no photos to share. So I doubt there will be new snaps from me in the next few days...and on that note, no new jewellery pieces either :(

Final reminder: Specials on U-Fhern.com will be ending today so get shopping!

In transit

2009-06-28T11:17:00.003+11:00

It's been a sad few days. I didn't think Michael's departure would have such a profound impact on those who weren't mad fanatics. It has been so profound that even Charlie's Angels' Farah Fawcett's death seems to have been neglected.

I saw tears roll down the face of someone I didn't expect having heard comments about M.J on the radio. It got me thinking ~ what if we die tomorrow? Shouldn't we be doing things we enjoy everyday with the people we love?

I couldn't be doing anything further from that. As if full time work wasn't a big enough change...I've (along with a large number of other grads) have decided to embark on a journey to further develop our professional careers and start our CA Program. Why? To become a professional, for better career opportunities...for a better future. My question is, are we so focused on the future that we're spending the present constantly planning for the future and wasting away our youth? Why?

Goodbye to the King of Pop...

2009-06-26T23:02:00.005+11:00

I woke up to what I thought was a prank on the radio this morning, but was extremely saddened when the news of Michael Jackson's death had been confirmed.

The King of Pop

Michael's talent has inspired many in the music industry. No matter how troubled his childhood, and how controversial his lifestyle, he was admired by millions. I was fortunate enough to have seen the King of Pop live in concert over ten years ago and I dare say his performance will be the best I'll ever see.

R.I.P M.J ~ you have touched the hearts of millions and you will be missed

In search for the perfect red

2009-06-23T14:20:00.002+11:00

I am in search for a good red lipstick. I have no idea what I want...

Glossy or matte?

Glittery or sheer?

Heavy or light?

I just know I want something red.

Even my colour palette for blogging has this variety of red red red red (ahh..decisions decisions)

Lipstick Queen - Poppy King

Some people carry it off well while some look aged wearing the wrong red. Last year I read a book called "Lessons of a Lipstick Queen" by Poppy King. At the age of eighteen, she was in search of the ideal matte red lipstick which ended in a multi-dollar business. The candid account of her personal journey was a good read as I was in the midst of setting up U-Fhern.com.

So maybe I'll look at the range of products Poppy has created...if only she was manning the stores so I could ask for an opinion.

Puppy Rescue Update

2009-06-21T18:32:00.000+11:00

I have photos to share and I have news that Benji (named after Benjamin Button) is out of hospital and looking for a home in Beijing :)

After a few weeks he's already looking so much healthier - well done Team Puppy Rescue! :)

Jewellery Specials are now on!

2009-06-20T12:10:00.005+11:00

COSTUME JEWELLERY SPECIAL!

Check out special prices on necklaces and earrings that are now on

U-Fhern.com. This is for a limited time only ~ happy shopping!

Got "Lice"?

2009-06-20T01:04:00.001+11:00

Friday night marked the end of a working week and boywas I happy to get out of there. Big Bear had booked a table for us at a a cozy little Japanese place in the suburbs. It's rather busy so it was one of those in by 6.30, out by 7.45 kinda place. Waiter was friendly, specials on the board looked yummy and the sushi never fails to disappoint. The wind was cold and we were looking forward to our warm mains.

First came the miso eggplant (I looove eggplant - any shape or form) but because of the sauce, we needed a bowl of steaming hot sticky Japanese rice. After placing our order, a Chinese waitress comes back and says "Soli, your lice will be ledy in a few minutezzz". Big Bear and I burst out in laughter (after she left of course). 10 minutes later, still no rice. Then I see the owner coming in the main door carrying takeaway boxes with what looked like rice.

This place gets five stars from me (I'll close a blind eye to the microwaved takeaway rice)

This cannot be. Rice is a Japanese staple - how can they not have rice stocked in the kitchen?! We were awfully disappointed especially when the rice was the normal kind, not thing sticky Japanese type. And I have a feeling the takeaway was brought to the back and microwaved *sigh*. The least he could have done was walk through the back of the restaurant rather than shatter me like that.

We continued with our dinner not questioning where the rice had come from and then I turned my head to the bar and what did I see? RICE written in block letters on the white board as a reminder. Has the GFC really taken a toll even on the basics?

What they want and what I can't offer

2009-06-17T20:15:00.001+11:00

I went to the Designer's Market with a girlfriend from work on Sunday. To be honest I was rather disappointed. Firstly I was disappointed I didn't manage to set up stall there because the event draws thousands of people even on a dark cold day. Secondly, I was disappointed with what was there (I'm not saying it out of bitterness).

Based on my observations, I can see why I didn't make the cut - by "Design" they pretty much mean something different and innovative.

And innovative it was at this store...

I first read about a foldable bike when I was living in Beijing and thought gee, how handy. It was too packed at the market to ask for a demonstration but I can imagine from the size of the wheels, the bike can be compacted into a nice little thing.

Then there was this...

Pretty stall I must say. It brings back childhood memories of playing dress up and hosting tea parties. The shop was selling all sorts of tights / leggings and had a set up by presenting the tights in clear cupcake packaging.

Outside of Fed Square, I whipped out my camera and started taking photos. It was my first outing out with the camera not photographing people I know and I felt so damn awkward! I kept looking behind my shoulder and tried to make sure no parent thought I was some sort of pedophile - though my friend assured me that dressed in high heeled boots and a floral dress, that would be highly highly unlikely. So snap snap snap I went...

Cute little doggy in a cute little outfit

This was an art piece created to promote Red Cross and blood donations (if I remember correctly). The photo is rather small but there is a girl lying in the far right circle... I have a feeling she might have been paid to sit there because all she did was pose. So I went to the other side and captured something more natural - German tourists trying to figure out what the whole fuss was about.

Curious Minds

Winter Fashion No-No

2009-06-16T21:50:00.000+11:00

August last year I was enjoying summer in Italy. Being a fashion capital, I was horrified to see this (might I add, this was seen within the Golden Quad)...

Taken from my girlfriend's blog Sugarchic...We both spotted a lady fully decked out in Italian brands sporting this!? I'm not quite as bad (ankle stockings + shorts) but bad nonetheless.

Fast forward 10 months and I'm shivering my way through an awfully cold winter in Melbourne. I tend to wear skirts to work because I'm such a girl. But after a night of hail, I thought it'd be best if I wear thermals under a pair of pants. Then I thought that my feet would get cold just wearing heels with no stockings. So I rummaged my sock drawer and found little skin toned stockings (the short ones). All was well until I had to attend an event that night.

O-M-G...they were so not skin toned! Under the light there is this white shine which is sooo far from my actual skin colour (if I were really that fair, people would think I were a ghost). And I didn't realise that when I'm sitting with my legs crossed (like how a lady should), you see white cut off at the ankles.

OOOOO-MMMM-GGGGGG. I am as guilty as can be. Not to mention, I spent the whole night trying to hide my feet under the chair in front, pulling them higher to hide them under my pants and even sitting with my legs somewhat to the side to hide the terrible sight from most of the attendees. *slap on hand* and no wonder those stockings were at the back of the drawer. They should head straight to the bin!

Plastic Fantastic

2009-06-14T23:58:00.008+11:00

Big Bear's mum recently returned from Japan and bought me a bag of plastic beads. I've created a few new pieces by combining the Japanese buys with other bits and pieces. All $20 and available from U-Fhern.com.

"A Trip to the Beach"

Ever gone to the airport and picked up someone who has just returned from somewhere like Bali or Thailand? You'll always see young (and older) girls wearing braids in their hair. The dark blue Murano print beads reminds me of this and fun times at the beach.

"Raspberry Stain"

Just like the stain the yummy berries leave on your lips.

"Ferocious"

Rich orange, red and yellow

"Moss"

The green colours say it all

"African Expedition"

Still waiting for my first Safari Trip, but the cream and brown colours remind me of scenes from the Disney classic, The Lion King.

"Jaded"

Could perfectly describe how you're feeling

The cutest thing I heard today...

2009-06-13T19:50:00.005+11:00

I love Saturdays because it's the weekend and you don't have to think about work the next day. Since I've been helping Big Bear out on the weekends, Saturday has never seemed so beautiful. I had a few errands to run this morning - went to the post office, bought a bunch of flowers then walked past Husk so I thought I'd drop in and have a browse.

Husk window - they stock some nice things. Haven't purchased anything from them but it doesn't stop me from walking in every time I pass by.

I headed towards the back of the store where they serve coffee and food and saw a Mum with her 4 year old daughter sitting at the counter. I heard the following conversation:

Waiter: That will be seven dollars thanks.

Little girl: Seven dollars!? I think one dollar would be better.

Mum and waiter chuckle

Little girl: Why do you have to ask money from people?

Waiter: That's a very big question you got there.

Her curiosity put a big smile on my face :)

My Russian Lover

2009-06-12T00:50:00.002+11:00

I much prefer Big and Carrie together but Petrovsky and Carrie were also an ok item. He was so romantic...if only Big Bear would surprise me with an Oscar de la Renta in a box, take me dining in the middle of the night and read me poetry by a fire (which would be bliss right now).

I was watching SATC for the millionth time and was very touched when Petrovsky bought Carrie a pretty necklace after she thought she'd lost her "Carrie" necklace when walking in and slipping across the floor at Paris' Dior. It was a lovely thought to cheer his lady up and I was inspired...

The temporary "Carrie" necklace

The only name I could think of for this piece was "My Russian Lover" - and I mean "Love-ah" with a head tilt and a shoulder twist Carrie style.

Popia Rolls

2009-06-10T22:57:00.001+11:00

Whenever I feel like I need a huge dose of veggies, I make popia. They are a Malaysian version of rice paper rolls and you can put pretty much anything inside. The only downside is that it take ages to do all the shredding and chopping. My favourite fillings include:

Lettuce
Thick black caramel sauce
Chili Sauce
Carrots
Turnip
Tofu
Cucumbers
Eggs
Crunchy Chinese doughnuts

Didn't manage to take a photo of my own rolls before they got eaten up but they look something like this. Healthy and hearty in a roll :)

I use ready made sheets from the freezer section of the Chinese grocer. Unfortunately I opened too many packets assuming that I was cooking for a bunch of hungry monsters but they disappointed me..miserably. I put the remaining sheets in the fridge and the next day they were stone hard! I tried microwaving it (thinking like rice, it'll soften)...but it just made the sheets brown and even crisper - reminds me of roti a little. Note to self: find a more appropriate storage method to keep sheets nice and soft.

Why do you have to be so mean?

2009-06-09T19:20:00.000+11:00

As most of you would know, Gordon Ramsay was in Melbourne as part of the Food and Wine Festival. But most people were aware of his visit as a result of a war on words between himself and Nine Network's Tracy Grimshaw. With topics such as his affair and failing business a no go zone, he hit back by making comments about Grimshaw's looks and sexuality. The battle hit the papers and the radio the next morning. I am rather disappointed at Ramsay's poor behaviour but others seem to disagree. Most callers to Mix 101.1's morning show felt his stand up was as, if not more impressive than his cooking.

Oh Ramsay, why do you have to be so mean? Didn't anyone teach you how to be a gentleman?

Bumper to bumper action

2009-06-08T12:05:00.006+11:00

I was assigned to a client out at Morrabin last week. I am a girl of routine and much prefer working in the CBD but I suppose a girl has to do what a girl has to do. First day I got lost and was half an hour late to work even though I gave myself an hour to get there - road signs were misleading! Last day was the lead up to the long weekend and boy was I excited. I thought to prep myself for the big weekend, I'd get a haircut in the city with according to Big Bear, a hot Korean chic who knows her stuff - she doesn't ask for your opinion when she's done.

Appointment was made for 7.30. I finished work at 5 and 2.5 hours should have been plenty of time to get to the city. Footy traffic combined with everyone dashing off to celebrate the Queen's Birthday was not pretty....Something funny: I read Gordon Ramsay claiming the Queen's birthday is actually in April but is celebrated throughout the year and all her presents are put up on e-bay. lol

It took me 45 minutes to get from Toorak Road onto St Kilda Road. More reason to hate the footy! And it is moments like these where I wish I had a flying vehicle like in the Jetsons *sigh*

Salsa!

2009-06-07T11:57:00.004+11:00

Tuesday - Ongoing Classes

Afro-Cuban Salsa (& Bachata) at the Exchange Hotel

Time:

06:30 PM - 07:30 PM Level 1 Absolute Beginner (main room)

07:30 PM - 08:30 PM Level 2 Intermediate Beginner (back room)

07:30 PM - 08:30 PM Level 4 Intermediate (main room)

08:30 PM - 09:30 PM Level 3 Advanced Beginner (main room)

08:30 PM - 09:30 PM Open Level Bachata (back room)

09:30 PM - 11:00 PM Social Dancing

~*~

Address: The Exchange Hotel - Corner King St and Lt Collins St - Melbourne City

Come after work for those city dwellers and have a drink and socialise at Melbourne city's sophisticated Exchange Hotel and learn some cool Salsa grooves...and now try out Bachata at 8.30PM for only $10 extra!

Costs: $16 casual ($140 / 10 session card)

I went Salsa dancing for the first time this week. Even though I play futsal every week, the sport does not particularly require the same level of hand-foot-head coordination. But thankfully there are guys who can lead the way and they know when to spin you...so all i did was follow their lead really. The class operates with the instructor teaching you two to three basic steps then everyone forms a circles in pairs. The music comes on and everyone practices the moves just taught. The class continues in the circle with new moves and new tricks. And you change partners ever so often so no worries about being stuck with the same guy.

It was great fun despite my lack of co-ordination and I will definitely give it another go the next time I'm in the city on a Tuesday night. Only word of warning: hand sanitizer is recommended because the guys can get a tad bit sticky after an hour of dancing.

Puppy Rescue Update

2009-06-05T21:57:00.003+11:00

To all those who have been interested about the little one, my friend reports that he is recovering slowly but steadily. Doctors discovered poor liver function due to malnourishment ~ hopefully this will hopefully improve along with the skin problems.

I am aware that nurses have shaved off all his hair and now he resembles an alien rather than a hyena! I'm still waiting for photos to share.

Thanks to everyone who has taken part in the rescue effort. I am sure he will be very happy to know that he is cared for half the world away.

xo

A Sunny Day

2009-06-02T22:28:00.007+11:00

My first shot of a pretty face outdoors...

Brunch on Brunswick Street + nice nice weater + shopping = perfect afternoon out

(won't add the loading zone into the equation)

Happy Birthday Koops! xo

Tata Lacroix?

2009-06-01T20:46:00.004+11:00

In the current economic climate, businesses are struggling and the fashion industry is no exception. With recent news of Kookai and Cactus Jam struggling financially here in Australia, a much bigger name seems to be in trouble in Paris.

It has been reported that Christian Lacroix recently filed a petition for protection from creditors. At this point in time, a few possibilities could result from this:
1) Restructuring
2) Liquidation
3) Sale of the company

Extravagant Lacroix designs

His designs are known to be a mixture of everything - styles, texture and color. Sometimes you can almost say you know a Lacriox when you see it because of the crazy combinations (well I think so anyway).

The show may (or may not) go on for the Lacroix Cruise 2010 and Fall 2009 couture lines at this stage. But it was evident that the Fall 2009 show was put together on a tight budget being held at a garage and with broken mirrors used as decor.

The company's CEO Nicolas Topiol says that the filing "doesn't mean the end of the story. It's the beginning of another chapter". So maybe it's not Au Revoir just yet...

Shop your heart out without breaking the bank…in your closet!

2009-05-30T09:58:00.001+11:00

With history often repeating itself, the same goes for fashion. We constantly see new trends revived and freshened up with a slight twist. Chances are, you already have a stack of essentials tucked away in your wardrobe. Recession or not, there’s no better time than now to spend a rainy Saturday indoors fishing for these pieces as many designers have begun reinventing classic pieces.

Statement Earrings

Zac Posen 2009

Model Kate Moss triggered the comeback of chandelier earrings last summer. Designers followed suit and you can find some I have handmade at www.u-fhern.com/earrings. Glamorous statement pieces are easy to dramatise any ensemble.

New Neutrals

Flesh tones are the colour choice for Spring. Designers have used the colours for nearly every silhouette including evening gowns, casual dresses, pants, jackets and skirts. So be on the hunt for any pale khaki pieces hidden away in musty boxes and pair them with similar colours.

Classic Cardis

The light pieces always follow me on my travels as I can throw them over anything whether it be a t-shirt and jeans or a girly dress. Even if the one you dig out has been bitten by bugs or moths, no need to chuck them out just yet because distressed is in.

Mummy Dearest

Whenever I’m back home and in search for something new to add to my wardrobe, I’ll go through Mum’s. No matter how many times I’ve done it in the past, I still manage to find something new and unique and I’m always surprised by the shopping habits she possessed over two decades ago. A few things that I have found, and you just might too:

Costume jewellery
Old school handbags
Well preserved heels (thank God Mum and I have the same sized feet… it really has saved me a fortune) ~ Mum has had a pair of bright yellow Manolos tucked away in her shoe rack, and long before SATC!

Of course I’ve been able to inherit all these lovely vintage items because I have a lovely Mum, and I tell her if I take her old things, she can get Daddy to get her new things...That’s a fair deal to me! But what I love most about raiding Mum’s wardrobe, is that everything that’s been passed to me, I have not seen the exact same item worn on anyone else. Having said that, one of my favourite moments was seeing this gold ball from one of Mum’s Chanel’s handbags swinging off the arm of a Miss SZT.

I was glad to find out that she too joins the club of inheriting classic goods from Mummy Dearest. I love Chanel, and probably always will due to the pure sense of sophistication the brand creates from the black and white packaging to the polished looks of the store representatives with neat bows in their hair.

However, in recent years, I have seen more and more girls carrying Chanel bags. With Mischa Barton sporting a Chanel bag in most episodes of the O.C, it is no wonder that young girls have followed suit. I only have one of my own (which only makes an appearance conditional on my outfit, and more importantly, the weather ~ I’d rather I get wet than it get stained from the rain), the rest are from Mum. I think I will continue to carry the ones Mum passed down to avoid walking into a bathroom at a club seeing an 18+ girl bent over the toilet bowl puking carrying the exact same bag. Plus, its financially a much wiser move!

想念

2009-05-28T23:02:00.005+11:00

想念好朋友...

一年过了太快.

一年前我还住在北京.

一年前我还是一个学生过非常脂油的生活.

一年前的这一天我跟朋友们一起庆祝端午节.

我今天在这里祝中国朋友端午节快乐!

Eternal Love

2009-05-27T22:30:00.001+11:00

Sometimes you see old couples together with absolutely nothing to say to each other. But because they have been married for decades, it has become something about comfort. Sometimes you see old couples that are so cute and the only thing you can wish for is that you too will grow old with your partner like that. I never met my grandparents as a pair on either side (not when I can remember anyway but I was told my granddad used to take me up into the attic to listen to Elvis records).

So growing up I had grandmas on both sides but never saw them with their other half. Two years ago I met Big Bear's paternal grandparents and they are just so cute! We had a double date for Valentine's Day in Shanghai because Papa Bear had booked a table for Mama Bear and we just tagged along since we were in town. They hold hands when the cross the road, they wait for each other to come out the door and they always have a big grin on their faces. Mama bear knits herself jumpers and scarves for winter. Papa Bear sits by the heater watching the news and prepares the wool as Mama Bear knits.

Mama and Papa Bear

They were best friends of Big Bear's maternal grandparents and the four were a team frequenting the automatic mahjong table. Big Bear's family are soon to set on a jet plane back to Shanghai for a wedding so I thought I'd make a Mama Bear something special.

I got the jade piece on a trip to Hong Kong and it is of two birds perched on bamboo which represents eternal love. For a couple who have been together for so long and still be so affectionate towards one another, it is worth celebrating ... and there must be a secret or two for us young ones to learn.

Seriously OCD...

2009-05-26T21:25:00.000+11:00

I thought I had OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder). When I drive and there is one car in one lane, I always stop in the next lane - even if it means I have to overtake as soon as the light turns green. I just like the evenness (just like how David Beckham or was it Brad Pitt, needs to have an even number of beers in the fridge).

Anyway, I was driving along Church Street over the weekend and I saw a Chinese man get out of his car and he viciously tugged at the door handle literally like 10 times to see if the car was locked. And then, he switched between tugging the front handle and the back handle. I could see him counting the number of times he was tugging. After 5 switches, he was satisfied that the doors were locked and joined his family as if nothing happened. Is that as OCD as they come?

Operation Puppy Rescue

2009-05-25T11:33:00.006+11:00

A close friend of mine is currently studying in Beijing and over the weekend she encountered a rather sick puppy. Having lived in China for a while, I must admit there is no RSPCA equivalent over there. My friend and her classmates decided to take the furless puppy to the vet where they found out it had been infected by a mite. She decided to keep the pup hospitalized for two full weeks and have the required tests and treatments performed on it. However, she is forking out for the treatment herself. So if you'd like to lend a hand, please let me know. Alternatively, U-Fhern.com will be partaking in this rescue operation ~ 50% of profits from this and next week's sales will be donated.

On the way to the vet

The pup has been described as a "baby hyena"...terrified at the vet's clinic

Some costs for treating the puppy include:

Medical bath to kill mites infecting the skin (about 3 times a week)
RMB80 (approx AUD$18)

Internal organs test (liver, heart etc)
RMB360 (approx AUD$90)

One night hospitalisation
RMB100 (approx AUD$22)

Rise and shine to nice...

2009-05-23T18:43:00.004+11:00

I have a t.v unit built into my wardrobe space in my bedroom. But instead of fitting a t.v inside this unit, I've used it as a space for my jewellery, makeup and all things nice. I spend a bit of time here in the morning getting ready - putting on powder, finding the right perfume, finding the right jewellery to match my outfit. I only just realised that it's a nice little sanctuary (if I can even call it that). I have things that remind me of the most important things in my life (and what a great opportunity to practice photography in the comfort of my own home)...

The beautiful Audrey Hepburn... She was featured in the Sunday Magazine and I ripped it out as a reminder of timeless beauty and elegance.

My parents on their honeymoon to Paris over twenty-five years ago

I got a beautiful box from Mummy for graduation. It is held shut with a large dragonfly pin. The polaroid is of me & Big Bear at a wedding

The back of the unit is filled with photos of friends, family and good times

Smell is the strongest sense...I'm loving the candles from Jo Malone

Battle of the Beauties

2009-05-22T11:59:00.000+11:00

5th May marked the release of Chanel's short film Train de Nuit featuring Audrey Tautou. Now Dior has done the same with The Lady Noir Affair starring another French beauty, Marion Cotillard. The full film will be released later on this month but for a sneak peek, check out Chic Report.

Audrey Tautou as Gabriel "Coco" Chanel

Marion Cotillard - The face of Dior

Both equally beautiful women, both the face of luxury labels ...*sigh*, just can't pick a favourite.

Navigation without a Melway

2009-05-20T16:40:00.000+11:00

Is not a smart idea. On the weekend, Big Bear and I had to attend a work function at a Partner's holiday house in Merricks Beach. Boy did we struggle getting there! We left an hour before our expected arrival and it took us almost 2 1/2 hours. I printed out directions from whereis.com and it turned out most of it was wrong. So here we were driving happily along...the scenery was nice but it started to get extremely frustrating when we weren't even close to the coastline and it started pouring!

With no Melway in the car, no one we called could really help us. We resorted to stopping and asking people along the way. We finally got to the esplanade and thinking we had arrived. Wrong - yet again.

We got there eventually, and I decided that someone should create a GPS system which you can call using your mobile so it detects exactly where you are and gives you the correct directions. I am sure it'll be useful...especially for those people you always hear getting lost on treks in the bush!

Anyways, we got there, had a good time, and according to Big Bear - nearly K.O'd trying to avoid getting my shoes wet at the beach. Thank God I brought dessert instead of entree. At least our lateness was hardly felt.

My Oreo Cheesecake...yum-meeee!

Baby spending

2009-05-18T23:55:00.001+11:00

The purpose of this blog was to share with everyone ways to stay chic in turbulent times...quite evidently I have done the biggest detour talking about sweet things, photography, food and everything far from money saving itself.

So now, I am here to share a tip devised by a group of girls at work to limit our spending on little things. Every week we are given a $10 budget for things that could technically be classified as being unnecessary such as coffee, lollies, magazines and cigarettes (as a nutritionist on Australia's Next Top Model implied, "smoking is so last century").

$10 a week in a coin purse to curb your spending

I've found this trick to be quite effective because it makes me think twice before I pull my wallet out. One Friday I had $0.25 left in my "small spending account" and I thought I must be able to find something in the supermarket for that price (or less). To my dismay, my friends were like "Uey, you can't even get a Chupa Chup...they're like $0.40!". Determined, I raided the fruit and veg section and came across bananas for $1.49/kg. I picked one and it turned out to be $0.16!! It might sound totally stupid, but the excitement I felt was quite gratifying!

So give the tip a try...it might just work for you :)

Canine Couture

2009-05-17T15:12:00.001+11:00

This was way too cute for me to resist... I never knew Ralph Lauren dressed pups but apparently they're having a Summer Sale. Doesn't apply here I don't think, (since we're entering Winter) but what does apply here is that there is no harm dressing up the little one...

Summer Ralph for Your Yorkie (too cute!)

My brother's friend apparently bumped into Miranda Kerr as she was shopping for a dog collar in Louis Vuitton. Miss Kerr asked if she could invite her and the pup to her hotel room so she could share her street encounter with her beau - Orlando Bloom! *heart flutters*

Note: I did not hear this story first hand so I cannot vouch that it is 100% true. But with a well dressed pup and a supermodel crossing path's on Collins Street, it can only end in Hollywood style.